Hazel – A Different Path to a Better Life
Around 20 years ago, a woman we’ll call Hazel contacted us following a traumatic experience. Having been sexually assaulted and facing further intimidation from those responsible, she wanted to learn basic self-defence to feel safer and regain some confidence.
It took several conversations before Hazel felt brave enough to take that first step. But as we got to know her, it became clear that self-defence was only part of what she needed.
Hazel was living alone with her two children in a two-bedroom flat in an area where she felt increasingly vulnerable. Rather than simply teaching her techniques and sending her on her way, we looked at the bigger picture.
Working with the local housing association and engaging with the local council’s housing department, we helped advocate for a fresh start. The outcome was a move to a three-bedroom semi-detached house in a much more pleasant area of Surrey.
We also worked with Hazel on her confidence, relationships and understanding of what she wanted from a partner. In time, she met someone special, married and built a happy family life in her new community.
The PEMS Life Difference
Hazel’s story demonstrates our philosophy: if you follow the same process as everyone else, you often arrive at the same destination.
Sometimes, changing a life means looking beyond the immediate problem, challenging conventional approaches and finding a different way forward.
Hazel showed tremendous courage. Our role was to help her recognise her options, take practical steps and build a future she could feel positive about.
Real Support. Lasting Change. 💚
